Whether or not you believe this or not it is true yes every guy is judged on 5 things in American society. When a guy meets another guy for the first time the first thing they do instinctively is start judging the other on the 5 things below.
1. His clothes
2. His job
3. His car
4. His house
5. His girl
After these 5 things are figured out than judgment comes in other ways like religious beliefs or political views and many other things so I wanted to ask all the guys out there what they judge next so chime on in with your judgments.
August 1, 2009 at 10:57 pm
lol.
ok, no offense to american guys, but i swore to myself i would never date one again.
i have met really nice ones, true. but what u wrote is also true, which makes it rather unbearable for me to go through the first dates scenario.
i remember when i was still trying, all guys would say over dinner was: i drive car X, my house is in Y neighborhood, i vacation in spot W, and oh, btw – did i mention that my parents are millionaires? (i swear a guy actually said this to me on a date).
but then i get to thinking… guys are really not to blame, since this is what society (or girls in this case) expect from them… a nice car, a nice house and lots of money. it’s such a snowball, and i admire the ones who manage to get out of it!